...dust to dust
We hate to beat you,
But we must, we must
When we're up, we're up
And when we're down, we're down
And when you're up against us you're turned upside down.
--a softball cheer Lindsey used to chant as we walked back from the UCI gym
Today is Ash Wednesday and I had no idea. Growing up, we never had any Ash Wednesday service and my parents never spoke of it or Lent. I wish someone could tell me why. It seems mostly like a traditional thing where people do the actions without the heart behind it. But for some, the right intentions are there. I remember back in the Edge days, people would be quite creative with their 40 days of change. I never participated because I never really thought of something good and meaningful that I'd want to do, but the main point I got from it was that people were doing a little introspective research and figuring out what was hindering them from having a close relationship with God. It wasn't about giving something up or restraining yourself or not eating meat or punishing yourself of any sorts. It was about looking at what was playing god in your life and disciplining yourself to put it aside to reap the benefits of a life without it. Some people said goodbye to Xanga (at the time, seemed like a big sacrifice), some people refrained from Facebook usage (very hard), some people gave up alcohol, and some people didn't eat their favorite meats (also a big one) since they really couldn't go a day without it. I remember Tiffany covered all her mirrors and didn't look at a single mirror the whole time! (I think the car was the exception, but only for safety, not to check what she looked like). These are all fine and dandy, but I don't think these are things that dominate my life (fb maybe a close call, though). In fact, there really isn't one thing that has a strong hold on my life. This also worries me. If I am to be this Christ-follower, shouldn't Jesus be the center of it? (Answer is Yes). Well, I mean, he's not out of the picture, he's just standing nicely on the sidelines and comes in when I need him. He's the convenient Jesus and is at my beck and call when I am angered by people around me, frustrated at circumstances, or annoyed at parents. He's there when I am nervous about a research talk or pressured to finish a task. He's there when I am infuriated by Christian-bashing media and those crazy "Christians" that give us a bad name too. And you know what, He's there when something really really good happens too that is so amazing and seemingly divine. He's always there...except when things are just...neutral. Why is this? It's not like Jesus is just a man-made concept to explain the inexplicable or to serve as a cop-out answer for the emptiness we feel. There's a certain truth about Him that never changes. This truth is about love and grace, but also of impurity amongst a holy God. He's a jealous God but it's only because he wants the best for us. He wants our desires, our time, and our hearts. Why am I so undisciplined into thinking I can take a break from Him during the lulls of life? It's like I need to "feel" His presence to believe in him and that's not what it's only about (part of it, sure, but there's gotta be more to back it up). One thing I've really appreciated about EBF is the solid scripture foundation, how they actually read the Bible and go through it verse by verse to help you understand what God is trying to tell you here. You would think it's pretty simple to just read it and get it, but there's so much background and so many cultural references and deeper meanings to the simplest of phrases. I don't think I realized before that at times I was relying on emotions and personal testimonies to string my faith along. Of course, people's personal experiences are always meaningful, but they just can't be the only basis for believing in something this lifestyle determining. I say all this and say I believe it, but it's so hard to make these words into actions. Why is it so hard to pick up the bible and read it daily for just a few minutes? I am so disciplined in most areas of my life except this one. I have always struggled and always feel like admitting and accepting defeat. I don't know if this will change, but it needs to...For now it's just words on a weblog.
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